<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585</id><updated>2011-07-08T00:00:03.256-04:00</updated><category term='Dr. Mel'/><category term='July 2009 - Communicating with People ...'/><category term='leader&apos;s letter'/><title type='text'>e-Mel - A monthly motivational newsletter</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>16</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-2561307697516622638</id><published>2009-08-06T20:38:00.012-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-06T21:03:02.577-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;BECOMING CHAMPIONS OF CHANGE&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;This month's blog is dedicated to a couple of our clients who have decided not be victims of the economy, but are choosing to be victors. One company is up 20% year-to-date over last year at this time, and the other is ready to aquire a 400+ competitor in a different state. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Change is all around what are you doing to be a victor not a victim? Enjoy ...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Change Management Issues&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;A recent study documented the three most important issues/responsibilities facing today’s managers as: human resources; accountability and ethical behavior; and, leadership. Let’s consider each of the top three: (1) Human Resources: Is your workforce skilled? Are they motivated? How do you know? When’s the last time you conducted a thorough morale survey or focus group with your internal customers? (2) Accountability and ethical behavior: Are you believable? Do those who work for you and purchase from you view you as fair and ethical? How do you know? (3) Leadership: Are you a visionary? Are you one others are willing to follow? What do you have in place to avoid the herd mentality in your organization? How do you bring you value and ethics systems to life in your organization?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Personal Application:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;What do you need to change about how you’re managing change in your organization?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;It’s Getting Hot in Here!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Smart thinking says the best time to start making changes and to try something different in your organization is when you’re on top rather than waiting until you’re in trouble and then attempting to claw your way back up. Remember the old frog syndrome: If you throw a frog in a pot of boiling water, he jumps out. But, if you put a frog in a pot of cold water and heat it slowly, he’ll sit there and boil to death. You don’t want to get boiled…do you? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Personal Application:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;What’s one (just one) change you could make today that would positively impact the level of value you create for those you serve? Remember, it’s not about change for change sake, it’s about creating greater value for those we serve. What’s your first step?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Chains of Change&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Change&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; – it’s become a corporate and national mantra. Change, change, change.. the dictates fly so fast and furious that the concept of change has become overused and many see it as trite and meaningless. Others have said change is nothing more than doing it faster or cheaper. But at its core, change is about improvement – about taking a process, a project, an organization and affecting positive, meaningful improvements. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It requires a dedicated effort to assess the as is, strategically acknowledge improvement opportunities, and to take action to impact meaningful change. Critical to any change process is follow up systems to ensure change is actually achieving the desired impact.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Personal Application:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;What do you desire to change in your organization? What’s the ‘as is’ of the situation you desire to change? What action will you commit to taking to improve it? How will you know it’s better.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Secrets to Success in Changing Times&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“I attribute my success to this: &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;I never gave or took an excuse.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;--Florence Nightingale&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“The essence of real leadership is to allow your people to see your need and desire for learning. Your actions speak more than your words. Today’s leaders must be students of change first, before they become teachers of change to others.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;--Jack Kahl, Manco, Inc&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“An executive cannot gradually dismiss details. Business is made up of details and I notice that the chief executive who dismisses them is quite likely to dismiss his business. Success is the sum of detail. It might perhaps be pleasing to imagine oneself beyond detail and engaged only in great things, but as I have often observed, if one attends only to great things and lets the little things pass the great things become little; that is the business shrinks.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;--Harvey Firestone&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-2561307697516622638?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/2561307697516622638/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=2561307697516622638' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/2561307697516622638'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/2561307697516622638'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/08/becoming-champions-of-change-change.html' title=''/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-1296677735630790993</id><published>2009-07-08T14:18:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-08T14:39:54.767-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='July 2009 - Communicating with People ...'/><title type='text'>July 2009</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;on a personal note: I certainly hope you enjoyed your Independence Day holiday and had a chance to reflect on both the blessings and responsibilities of freedom and what a privilege it is to live in America.  In our little city of Temple Terrace, we start with a parade through town.  Politicians, City officials and clubs from the community along with bands from the local high school and university strutted and tossed beads and candy.  While the city government had to cut fireworks from the budget earlier this year, the citizens and businesses chipped in.  Over $20,000 was raised and the display was even more spectacular.  To highlight the evening's event &lt;strong&gt;The Florida Brass and Woodwind Band &lt;/strong&gt; played (with the conductor dressed as John Philip Sousa) and as they began to play the 1812 overture the fireworks started!  What a thrilling way to end a great day! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sincerely, Dr. Mel Jurado&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now as the summer heats up reflect on the following ...&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Communicating with People ... Inspire or Expire!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What Did You Say?!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As an Industrial-Organizational Psychologist, my practice management focuses on the human-side of enterprise. One of the most intriguing aspects of my practice is observing how miscommunications can pre-ordain unintended outcomes. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the pitfalls many fall prey to is a failure to get to the point. It's happened to some of the greatest writers and communicators of our time. Case in point: the young B.F. Skinner was inspired to follow a career in psychology after reading a book by George Bernard Shaw. &lt;em&gt;It's interesting to note that the last chapter of the book actually denounced Behaviorism but Skinner never read that far - he thought the end of the book was dull.&lt;/em&gt; After he became one of the world's most influential thinkers, Skinner met Shaw and told him that his book had convinced him of the truth of Behaviorism. "Good God," Shaw replied, "I though I had demolished it!" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps he would have, if he'd made his point sooner. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Personal application:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;When are you apt to beat around the bush rather than getting to the point? Review the last several e-mails or letters you sent, how could you have communicated more succinctly? Are you upfront with the most critical pieces of info you need to convey? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Don't be a But-head &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eliminating the word "but" from your e-mails, conversations, and dealings with others will strengthen your ability to persuade others. The reason is any time you use the word "but", what others hear you saying is that you disagree with them. For example if you say "I liked your report, but let me share this ... ," others wonder if you really liked their work or not. The solution? Always replace "but" with "and." Replacing "but" with "and" eliminates verbal missteps that can lead to hurt feelings and strained team relations. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leadership Strategy - Making Failure Work for You&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems incongruous, how can failure ever work to a leaders benefit?! From the perspective of those we lead, work alongside, do business with, we can actually increase other's positive perceptions of us in the face of failure if we get in front of it, take personal responsibility, and are forthright with those around us. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Case in point: John F. Kennedy achieved his highest level of popularity after he flubbed the Bay of Pigs. Although it doesn't seem to make sense, JFK gained a ton of popularity after this very public failure. In psychological terms it's known as a "strategic-pratfall effect." Although the invasion was botched, the President was quick to accept responsibility for it. In doing so, he showed the public not only that he was human in making mistakes, but also that he was honest and open about owning up to them. When JFK failed so publicly but didn't pass the buck, people identified with his problem and actually reported a greater confidence in his ability to lead and be trusted. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Personal Applications:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt; What do you need to take responsibility for without passing the buck or making excuses? &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt; What might such transparency do to you ability to inspire and build trust with those you work, live, and play with? &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;WARNING - Are you Inspiring or Expiring Around People?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;How do you hold up against these ending quotes? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Management problems always turn out to be people problems." &lt;br /&gt;--John Peet &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects of you. Never excuse yourself." &lt;br /&gt;--Henry Ward Beecher &lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-1296677735630790993?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/1296677735630790993/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=1296677735630790993' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/1296677735630790993'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/1296677735630790993'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/07/communicating-with-people-inspire-or.html' title='July 2009'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-1931925136797251904</id><published>2009-06-04T14:07:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-04T22:32:36.277-04:00</updated><title type='text'>June 2009</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Stimulus Thoughts for Your Enterprise&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Stimulus &amp;amp; You&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stimulus defined is something that acts as a spur to mental processes. So how is the current economy shaping thinking in your organization? Challenging economies bring anxiety and change that is often motivated only by fear. People, including you and me, get protective. We are inclined to throw our arms around what we have and hold on. This reassures us that we are in charge of something. We are reluctant to let go because we feel more threat than opportunity in the change that surrounds us. Can you relate? Are you:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;* Approaching your daily work with survival in mind?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Making sure actions look good and finding yourself reducing the risks you take?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Less tolerant of failure and more protective of your turf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, how can this challenging time benefit you and your organization? Now is the perfect time to reshape our work priorities. As we find our organization pressured to provide greater value, there are several success strategies we’ve been assisting client partners with. How are you doing? Have you…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;…been a part of focused, facilitated discussions about where the entire organization is going and actively redesigned work to support only that direction?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;…linked your work to client and community results? Have your internal customers (employees) identified what they especially need in order to deliver those services?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The underlying theme of the above options and those we employ is to focus not just on polishing, or trimming back, or modifying, but truly on rethinking the work from the ground up given new priorities due to the realities of today’s economy. The good news, we garner greater control and support when we’re proactive, NOW.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Your Choice -- The Highest Position&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s amazing during times of change, and for some of the most monumental decisions we will make, results seem to be left to chance. Or, just as damning, decisions are made around politics and personalities rather than greatest benefit to the organization and those we serve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a doctor of human behavior, it’s been interesting to observe the recent news around the confirmation process of Sonia Sotomayor for the Supreme Court. Political pundits, on both sides of the aisle, launch attacks at one another. Invasive tentacles and narcissistic rants of high-falutin' folk reduce the process to a cockamamie circus sideshow. &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;The question for you –&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Does succession planning within your organization mimic Supreme Court confirmation hearings?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you ensured buy-in of those your hire and promote by succinctly providing to all stakeholders a clear picture of the evaluation criteria? Have you clearly articulated ‘musts’ and ‘wants’ skill sets for succession planning (&amp;amp; placements)? Have you quantified the process? Are you confident in the process your organization has adopted to address the multitude of baby boomer leaders readying to exit the workplace?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Value Creating&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During challenging times those who lack an understanding of value focus on dollars alone. Value encompasses the total experience – dollars, time, and psychology. Time: How much time will it cost me or save me to work with you? Psychology: How much of a hassle (or delight) are you to work with? Dollars: Am I getting more than it’s costing me – taking into account dollars, time, and the hassle factor? Research shows these are the criteria we use to evaluate our interactions. Are you creating value for those around you?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-1931925136797251904?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/1931925136797251904/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=1931925136797251904' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/1931925136797251904'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/1931925136797251904'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/06/stimulus-thoughts-for-your-enterprise.html' title='June 2009'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-2335462172048654252</id><published>2009-05-04T16:45:00.011-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:22:07.985-04:00</updated><title type='text'>May 2009</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;LESSONS FROM MEMORIAL DAY&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Marines &amp;amp; The Power of Words&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we enter into the summer -- a season of patriotic holidays, it seems fitting to pay deference to a great management book penned by a couple of Marines, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Semper Fi:&lt;/strong&gt; Business Leadership the Marine Corp Way&lt;/em&gt;. Whether you’re a veteran or not, if you are required to get results with and through people, this book offers valuable insights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marines are very focused communicators. For example, Marines never use the word “repeat” in radio communications, for fear that it may be misinterpreted as “retreat.” Instead, a Marine will use the phrase, “I say again”. And, while Army personnel refer to their drab, olive green, field uniforms as “fatigues”, Marines call their exact drab, olive green, uniforms “utilities.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is another word you’ll never hear a Marine Corps officer, sergeant, or drill instructor use, the word is “manage.” In fact the word is treated with such abhorrence, it is often referred to as the “M Word.” That’s because Marines are trained to lead, not to manage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not sure if this message is relevant to you as a leader in the private sector? Well, consider how Marines view the difference between “managing” and “leading” – Would your team (platoon) view you as a &lt;em&gt;manager&lt;/em&gt; or a &lt;em&gt;leader&lt;/em&gt;? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Managers &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;push their people; &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;leaders&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; pull theirs’ by sheer force of personal example.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Managers &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;order their personnel to get the job done; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;leaders&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; inspire their personnel to get the job done. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Managers&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; build a fire under your butt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;leaders&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; build a fire in your belly. “Hands on”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Managers&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; cultivate obedience; “hands off”; &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;leaders&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; cultivate independence and resourcefulness. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Managers&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; consider themselves part of an exclusive club; &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;leaders&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; maintain the respect and fellowship of the rank and file. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Managers&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; accept credit for the success of their subordinates; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;leaders&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; turn away from the spotlight, letting it shine upon those they have the honor to lead. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When a project turns sour, the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;manager&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; asks, “Who is responsible?” &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leaders&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; say, “I am responsible.” &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;You work overtime for a &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;manager&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;; you work all the time for a &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;leader&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, what are you – a manager or a leader? What action can you take over the next 30-days to ensure the “M Word” is never uttered about you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Remembrances for Today’s Leaders &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“The house we hope to build is not for my generation but for yours. It is your future that matters. And I hope that when you are my age, you will be able to say as I have been able to say: We lived in freedom. We lived lives that were a statement, not an apology.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;--Ronald Reagan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Application Challenge:&lt;/em&gt; Are you building a business that will stand in the future? Are you actively pursuing making your vision (statement) a reality? Are those in your organization living their lives as statements rather than apologies?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;“I neither ask nor desire to know anything of your plans. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Take the responsibility and act, and call on me for assistance.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;--Abraham Lincoln to General&lt;br /&gt;Ulysses S. Grant, on his Appointment to&lt;br /&gt;command the Union Armies, 1864&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Application Challenge:&lt;/em&gt; What type of delegator are you? Do you trust and empower?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;“A sense of humor can be a great help – particularly a sense of humor about (oneself). William Howard Taft joked about his own corpulence and people loved it; it took nothing from his inherent dignity. Lincoln eased tense moments with bawdy stories, and often poked fun at himself – and history honors him for this human quality. A sense of humor is part of the art of leadership, of getting along with people, of getting things done.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;--Dwight D. Eisenhower&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Application Challenge&lt;/em&gt;: When’s the last time you had a good laugh (on yourself)? Commit to adding laughter to your life and the lives of those you lead.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“The time to take counsel of your fears is before you make an important battle decision. That’s the time to listen to every fear you can imagine! When you have collected all the facts and fears and made your decision, turn off all of your fears and go ahead!”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;--Gen. George S. Patton&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Application Challenge&lt;/em&gt;: We are living in a change culture. We’re surrounded by change on all sides. In what situation do you need to take counsel, make a decision, and act?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-2335462172048654252?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/2335462172048654252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=2335462172048654252' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/2335462172048654252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/2335462172048654252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/05/may-2009.html' title='May 2009'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-1690088551719446619</id><published>2009-04-20T16:01:00.017-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-20T17:11:36.472-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Back to the Basics (POWER or POTTY Training)</title><content type='html'>Recently, a client asked me to come back and review some learning and materials we delivered for his sales team over the past several years. I really enjoy that kind of work because it tells me the client saw and still sees value in the original programs and wants to keep the content fresh and full of power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We tweaked the content, added enough new information to make sure the people who first heard the material didn't feel like they had heard everything already and most importantly, I integrated content from three of the resources they have been reviewing over the past year!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Which leads me to a great couple of questions to ask you ...&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;1.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; After you dedicate time and resources to training, what do you do to reinforce the messages you worked so hard to implant?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;2.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Do you ever come back and review past material?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;3.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Do you look for new material that adds to and strengthens the previous information?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; Is your training program focused on moving the team forward over time or do you look for the themes that are currently "hot"? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;We call reinforced learning &lt;span style="color:#336666;"&gt;"P.O.W.E.R."&lt;/span&gt; Training:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#336666;"&gt;P&lt;/span&gt;rograms &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#336666;"&gt;O&lt;/span&gt;vercome &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#336666;"&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;eaknesses &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#336666;"&gt;E&lt;/span&gt;specially when &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#336666;"&gt;R&lt;/span&gt;einforced&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Sadly we run into organizations that jump from one good idea to another and the value they wanted is lost over time because each old idea is replaced with new idea before the last lessons are internalized and take hold. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;                                                                 &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;We call buzzword or new idea training &lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;"P.O.T.T.Y."&lt;/span&gt; Training:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#660000;"&gt;P&lt;/span&gt;rogram &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#660000;"&gt;O&lt;/span&gt;r &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#660000;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;heme &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#660000;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;his &lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#993300;"&gt;Y&lt;/span&gt;ear&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope your training focus is &lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;"&gt;"P.O.W.E.R." &lt;/span&gt;not &lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;"P.O.T.T.Y."&lt;/span&gt; training! It's powerful if it fits your mission and goals and moves you closer to your vision. If not be careful!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, after conducting the training refresher event, I worked this weekend on reworking an older e-mel creating this new (and hopefully fun) one-page motivational piece reinforcing as much of the program key ideas as I could ... I'd like to share that with you now!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#336666;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#336666;"&gt;THE ABC’s FOR 2009 ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#336666;"&gt;BACK TO THE BASICS&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Success: As Easy As A, B, C…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;ction.&lt;/strong&gt; The days of ready aim, aim, aim, aim are over! You have to be willing to fire!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;B&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;elief.&lt;/strong&gt; A firm belief and commitment to your vision &amp;amp; mission is a mandate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;C&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;o&lt;/span&gt;mmunication.&lt;/strong&gt; The single factor that, when it’s weak or missing, can kill relationships and squash results.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;D&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;e&lt;/span&gt;dication.&lt;/strong&gt; Beyond lip service, are you willing to make the necessary sacrifices to achieve your personal &amp;amp; professional mission in 2009?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;E&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;xcellence.&lt;/strong&gt; Have you defined what it looks like in each of the goal areas (Key Result Areas) that are important to you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;F&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;ocus.&lt;/strong&gt; Where are you headed? Is it clear to you and others?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;G&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;r&lt;/span&gt;ateful.&lt;/strong&gt; Have you cultivated this most important habit &amp;amp; spirit?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;H&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;umor.&lt;/strong&gt; Laugh, relax, and lighten up. It’s fine to take your work seriously, but develop the ability to take yourself lightly!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;ntegrity.&lt;/strong&gt; How you go about achieving results is as important as what you achieve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;oy.&lt;/strong&gt; Are you happy in your pursuits?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;nowledge.&lt;/strong&gt; How will you go about building your knowledge base this year?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;L&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;oyalty.&lt;/strong&gt; Are you loyal? What are you doing to nurture it in others?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;M&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;ission.&lt;/strong&gt; Why do you exist? Why does your business exist? Are your everyday actions a testimony to these missions?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;N&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;etwork.&lt;/strong&gt; How are your expanding personal &amp;amp; professional contacts?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;O&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;ptimism.&lt;/strong&gt; Have you cultivated the ability to see the positive in all situations and stay focused on achieving the mission/task at hand?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;P&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;roductivity.&lt;/strong&gt; How are you measuring the progress toward your goals?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Q&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;uality.&lt;/strong&gt; What does it mean to you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;R&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;elationships.&lt;/strong&gt; We get results with and through people. Would the people who know you best say you’re “R” is a success?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;S&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;mile.&lt;/strong&gt; It changes your physiology, for the good; and makes it more inviting for others to approach you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/em&gt;ime.&lt;/strong&gt; We all have all there is, yet all complain about not having enough. Determine this year to invest your time in those activities that will allow you to accomplish your personal and professional mission. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;U&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;nderstand.&lt;/strong&gt; Who or what do you need to gain better understanding of?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;V&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;ision.&lt;/strong&gt; What’s the future you want to create for yourself by 2020? 2030?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;W&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;isdom.&lt;/strong&gt; Defined it’s ‘intelligence drawing on experience and governed by prudence.’ Are you exhibiting it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;X&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;tra.&lt;/strong&gt; What’s the little ‘eXtra’ you want to commit to do for self/ others this year?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Y&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;ou.&lt;/strong&gt; Are you really committed? Do you go to work daily for You Incorporated?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Z&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;eal.&lt;/strong&gt; Do you exhibit a persistent fervent devotion to your cause?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, are you employing this entire alphabet in your work &amp;amp; life? Which of the ABC’s could most benefit you? Over the next thirty days, which of your ABC’s will you be minding?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;“Ability is what you’re capable of doing.&lt;br /&gt;Motivation determines what you'll do.&lt;br /&gt;Attitude determines how well you do it.”&lt;br /&gt;--Lou Holtz&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Well, there you have it, I'll post a new e-Mel the first week of May and will enjoy your thoughts!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-1690088551719446619?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/1690088551719446619/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=1690088551719446619' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/1690088551719446619'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/1690088551719446619'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/04/back-to-basics-power-training-or-potty.html' title='Back to the Basics (POWER or POTTY Training)'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-7227573958608632989</id><published>2009-04-07T23:03:00.012-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-08T00:20:42.002-04:00</updated><title type='text'>April 2009</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#663300;"&gt;FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;MILLION DOLLAR LESSONS FOR TODAY’S LEADERS&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many know, Dr. Mel is a boxing fan...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;In early 2008 I was honored by Florida's Governor Charlie Crist, to serve as one of five statewide commissioners on the Florida Boxing Commission - it's the second most active commission in the country and we oversee any professional Boxing or Mixed Martial Arts match in the state. Not only am I the only woman to current hold a seat on the commission, I am the second woman ever to have this appointment!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;So after watching over a hundred Boxing and MMA cards in the past many months, I thought I'd share some lessons I see play out on a regular basis, both in the ring and at your office!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;A couple of years ago Clint Eastwoood directed (and starred in) a great fight film that still today provides powerful lessons for business and governmental leaders. It received seven Academy Award Nominations and four Oscars including: Best Director (Clint Eastwood), Best Actress in a leading role (Hillary Swank), and Best Actor in a supporting role (Morgan Freeman). And you may have already guessed it won the 2005 Best Picture Award as well -- it was none other than: &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Million Dollar Baby&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; written by F.X. Toole.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lesson:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Instead of running from pain, in boxing you step into it.” &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;–F.X. Toole, Author&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;Application:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; What ‘pain’ have you been running from in your business? You continue to run, but it’s still there! What’s the issue you need to turnaround&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;, face, and step into, head on?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"&gt;Lesson:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“You cannot call yourself an actor (leader) if you’re not listening.” -- &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Morgan Freeman, on role in Million Dollar Baby. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Listening is everything.”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Hillary Swank&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;Application:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Do you believe listening is everything? Do your actions support your belief? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lesson:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; One of the peripheral characters in the movie, “Danger” was a 100lb. weakling, a misfit, lacking a firm grasp of reality; this individual had no/low skills, in fact ended up getting himself hurt badly.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;Application:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; Do you have such peripheral characters in your organization? Who’s the “Danger” in your organization – they’re low skilled, lacking a grasp of reality, under-performing, yet have been allowed to malinger? What steps will you take to address your “Danger”?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Recently, one CEO quite indignantly shared, “You think we’d invest in training and developing them!?” He was referring to employees filling service roles within his Fortune 500 organization. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;He continued, “Mel, it’s low skill/low wage. It doesn’t matter.” What this CEO failed to realize was it was this level of employee that had the most direct and profound interaction with his customers. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#003300;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#003300;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#003300;"&gt;A thought:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; If you don’t want to invest in your “Dangers”, then eliminate them from your team. Remember the maxim, “We are only as strong as our weakest link.” &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"&gt;Application:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; What significance do you think there is in the character’s name being "Danger”? By not addressing the “Dangers” in your organization, there’s a great cost in terms of time, dollars, and human resources. So, who’s your “Danger” and what are you going to do about it?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;HOW CEO’S GET TKO’D&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;It’s a common belief that CEOs get fired because of financial performance. While the cases like GM's Rick Waggoner are made news, the reality is that’s wrong. According to a study by LeadershipIQ.com. It found that 31% of CEOs get fired for mismanaging change, 28% for ignoring customers, 27% for tolerating low performers, 23% for denying reality, and 22% for too much talk and not enough action.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;The 4-year study interviewed 1,087 board members from 286 public, private, business and health care organizations that fired, or otherwise forced out, their chief executive. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Upon completing the 1,087 interviews, responses were compiled and distilled the most common answers to the open-ended question: “So why did the CEO really get fired or forced out?” The top five responses: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Mismanaging change (31%): Virtually every organization interviewed indicated they were undergoing, or had recently undergone, a change initiative. However, half of board members said that their change initiative did not go well. Most pointed to a failure on the CEOs part to properly motivate employees and managers, and more specifically, to adequately sell the need to change course. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Ignoring customers (28%): Even with Sarbanes-Oxley, many board members have close ties with, or are themselves, customers of the organization. Board members said their test for whether the CEO was sufficiently engaged in the business was the extent to which they evidenced intimate knowledge of customers, customer needs and developing trends. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Tolerating low performers (27%): Board members shared that when CEOs allowed an obvious low performer to linger (without any improvement or discipline), it destroyed the CEO’s credibility and made it politically difficult for them to hold others accountable. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Denying Reality (23%): When board members felt that they were closer to the market and customers than the CEO, the CEO was ousted. Board members said they would rather have bad news and a plan to fix it, than they would no news or sugarcoated news. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Too much talk, not enough action (22%): Walking the walk is more important than talking the talk. Boards want tactical plans for the who, what, when and where, as well as evidence of implementation. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;The tagline to Million Dollar Baby went: "&lt;em&gt;Beyond his silence, there is a past. Beyond her dreams, there is a feeling. Beyond hope, there is a memory. Beyond their journey, there is a love."&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;While true for the movie, what would your tagline be about the lessons you're learning in this economy? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#663300;"&gt;Are you Fighting the Good Fight?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-7227573958608632989?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/7227573958608632989/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=7227573958608632989' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/7227573958608632989'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/7227573958608632989'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/04/april-2009.html' title='April 2009'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-7505873362232133126</id><published>2009-04-07T22:38:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:38:23.887-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leader&apos;s letter'/><title type='text'>I'm Back ...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Thanks for checking in!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While it's been some time since posting to this blog, I've still been working. Now that I have a little more time on my hands, it's time to restart the blog process and even work to back fill the last 8 months or so since I last entered a note ... although I have been writing consulting and training steadily, and my clients still get a one-page update between sessions (in a two column, pdf file version). I just never got around to repurposing the thoughts and posting them here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So beginning this month, April 2009, I promise to post new monthly messages, and even work on backfilling the blog with some of the articles and newsletters I wrote before.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Besides that, I have come to see the wisdom in a simple three word mantra:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#990000;"&gt;CHANGE OR DIE ...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;The sentiment may seem harsh, but is indeed becoming a reality for today’s leaders. During turbulent times, leaders are faced with tumultuous budget and productivity concerns. Your HR and admin staff are feeling battered from reduction in workforce discussions. What’s often left to chance, as leaders are stretched focusing on the fires of the day, is addressing those employees left to produce positive results and perform for your organization. All too often it’s our most valuable resource, our remaining employees, that are not addressed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One uninformed executive recently shared, “Heck they’re happy just to have their jobs! I don’t need to do anything special for them.” Really?! Have I missed the reports of first quarter spikes in productivity, performance, and profitability in businesses across our nation? It’s natural when employees find themselves in seemingly intolerable situations and feeling overwhelmed by tension, anxiety, and a sense of powerlessness to retreat, shutdown, and go into a self-preservation mode. We create the exact opposite culture than we need to weather the economic storm and emerge victorious. By not addressing employee morale, we engender a survival and victim mentality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over the past several months, we’ve been contacted by several leading organizations and had the opportunity to partner with them as they’ve realized now is a critical and pivotal time to capitalize on their most important resource, their people. Although each solution has been tailored to the individual needs of client organizations, some of the strategies we’ve employed include: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Culture Reconstruction:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Building a Culture Where People Thrive&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Positioning for the Future:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Leading in Uncertain Times With Shifting Expectations&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Diversity:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Differences seem to be magnified during times of Crisis. Tailored to the unique needs of your organization, we explore cultural, race, gender, and generational issues that can rob an organization of productivity.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Denial – Not a River in Egypt:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; Reality discussions, facing facts, resolving roadblock issues, developing strategies, action commitments, and holding self and others accountable is no longer a luxury in today’s tough business climate. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Stimulus Success:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Strategic Mapping for Stimulus Dollar Expenditures &amp;amp; Execution&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Change or Die:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Principles to Live By. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2020 Habits and Skill Development:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; It’s not too early to identify and begin to develop in earnest the attitudes and skill sets that will be prerequisites to success in the next decade. Your choice, be proactive and develop core competencies now, or step into the reactive, victim role forever being frustrated and playing catch-up. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Character and Ethics:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; More than ever this is the desire and desperate demand of your customers (constituents), co-workers, and the community your function within.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;New Ways of Thinking for a Change:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; What type of thinking is most manifested in your organization? Is it what will maintain your position and move you to the next level of excellence? Are you firing on all cylinders when it comes to thinking – big picture thinking, creative thinking, realistic thinking, possibility thinking, and shared thinking?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Maybe you're looking for a topic that's not listed, that's not a problem. Since 1991 we've been designing programs, events, and solutions around our customers concerns and needs ... we can do something special for you too!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From acting as a short-term organization morale officer, to offering action-oriented development sessions for employees, to one-on-one coaching, to offering follow-up support tools our organization is available to ensure your organization is maximizing your most valuable asset in employee productivity or just providing blog essays for you to pass along, we’d be happy to meet with you personally or talk via phone or e-mail to discuss a tailored solution for the challenges you’re facing in today’s challenging climate. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mel Jurado&lt;br /&gt;(813) 985-4161&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-7505873362232133126?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/7505873362232133126/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=7505873362232133126' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/7505873362232133126'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/7505873362232133126'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2009/04/im-back.html' title='I&apos;m Back ...'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-4886717592713889595</id><published>2007-09-06T19:16:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:26:11.305-04:00</updated><title type='text'>September 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;HEAD OF THE CLASS&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;MAKING THE GRADE &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In his book Good to Great, Jim Collins contends that true leadership – the essence of what people long for and want desperately to follow – implies a certain humility that is appropriate and elicits the best response from people. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Collins found two characteristics that describe great leaders: will and humility. Will is the determination to follow through on a vision/mission/goal. Humility is the capacity to realize that leadership is not about the leader; it’s about the people and what they need.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Too many people think that who they are is their position and the power it gives them. This is what causes leaders to receive a failing grade! Power comes from the people whose lives you touch. You finally become a true leader when you realize that life is about what you give rather than what you get. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Effective leaders recognize that their jobs are to create and maintain cultures that turn on employees so they can turn on customers. Effective leaders look down the traditional hierarchy and say, “What can I do for you?” rather than having their people looking up the hierarchy and saying, “What can we do for you?” Leaders that receive high marks are constantly trying to find out what their people need to b successful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Final Exam -- Application Questions: Are you a leader that possesses a passion for making a difference in the lives of your people, and in the process, positively impacting your organization?&lt;br /&gt;When things go wrong, do you look for who to blame or do you ask yourself, “What could I have done differently that would have allowed my people to be as great as they could be?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;KEEPING SCORE&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In his book The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness, Stephen Covey speaks of four disciplines to execution. Those four disciplines include: Focus on the wildly important; create a compelling scoreboard; translate goals into specific actions; and, hold each other accountable – all of the time. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the past 90-days, in conducting impromptu conversations with leadership clients, they’ve shared their greatest challenge among the four disciplines is in getting direct reports and mid-level managers to commit to creating a compelling scoreboard. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A few leaders even attempted to convince me not having a scoreboard hasn’t negatively affected their organization’s productivity. Folks, people play differently when they’re keeping score!&lt;br /&gt;Have you ever watched a pick-up basketball game – when the players were not keeping score? Players tend to do whatever they want, the game stops for a few jokes, and the playing is not very focused. But when they start keeping score, things change. There’s a new intensity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Huddles happen. Plays are improvised. Players adapt quickly to each new challenge. And the speed and tempo build dramatically.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The same thing happens at work. Without crystal-clear measures for success, people are not sure what the goal truly is. Without measures, the same goal is understood by a hundred different people in a hundred different ways. As a result, team members get off track doing things that might be urgent but less important. They work at an uncertain pace. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Application Questions:&lt;/em&gt; Do you have a scoreboard – an inescapable picture of reality? Do your plans adjust to it? Does timing adjust to it? Do you consistently update your scoreboard? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-4886717592713889595?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/4886717592713889595/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=4886717592713889595' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/4886717592713889595'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/4886717592713889595'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/09/september-2007.html' title='September 2008'/><author><name>Rod Jurado</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09167456748955761498</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-6373262392563583615</id><published>2007-08-02T08:09:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:27:56.604-04:00</updated><title type='text'>August 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;DOG DAYS OF LEADERSHIP&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;BONES OF CONTENTION &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking to avoid contentious relations with your employees and customers? In Malcolm Gladwell’s latest book, Blink, he reports on Wendy Levinson’s research. She reviewed hundreds of recorded conversations between a group of physicians and their patients. Roughly half of the doctors had been sued, half not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Levinson was able to clearly differentiate between the two groups based solely on their conversations. The surgeons who had never been sued spent more than 3-minutes longer with each patient than those who had been sued. They were more likely to make “orienting’ comments, such as “First I’ll examine you, and then we will talk the problem over” or “I will leave time for you questions.” This helps patients sense they are being acknowledged and will be listened to. These doctors were more likely to engage in active listening, saying such things as “Go on, tell me more about that,” and they were far more likely to laugh and be personable during a visit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Interestingly, there was no difference in the amount or quality of information they gave their patients; they didn’t provide more details about medication or the patient’s condition. The difference was entirely in how they talked to their patients.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Further research showed doctors that sound dominant fell into the sued group. Those whose voices sounded less dominant and more concerned fell into the non-sued group. In the end, it came down to a matter of respect, and the simplest way that respect is communicated is through tone of voice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Application Question: What does your tone communicate to those you work with and serve? Do you practice active listening? Would your be judged dominant or concerned? Are you inadvertently creating contentious (and possibly costly) relationships?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;BEST OF SHOW&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In one of Ken Blanchard’s latest books, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leading At A Higher Level&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;, He defines leadership as an influence process. The book notes that while leaders can be successful in the short run by emphasizing goal accomplishment, what tends to fall by the wayside is the condition of the human organization. Those leaders don’t always take morale and job satisfaction into consideration. Focusing on results may work in the short-term, but can be extremely costly long-term to organizations. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Blanchard reported that in organizations where leading at a higher level is the rule rather than the exception, leaders do four things well: (1) They set their sights on the right target and vision. (2) They treat their customers right. (3) They treat their people right. (4) They have the right kind of leadership. This means leaders who seek to be serving leaders instead of self-serving leaders. In Blanchard’s model, once a vision has been cast, leaders move themselves to the bottom of the hierarchy, acting as a cheerleader, supporter and encourager to the people who report to them. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To develop a leadership point of view, Blanchard has an in-depth series of queries he takes the readers through. To jumpstart you, answer for yourself the following questions: (1) What are the core values that guide your behavior? (2) What are your beliefs about leading and motivating people? (3) What can your people expect from you? Remember, leadership is not something you do to people; it’s something you do with people. (4) How will you set an example for your people? People learn from your behavior, not from your words.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I’d rather see a sermon,&lt;br /&gt;than hear one, any day.”&lt;br /&gt;Edgar Guest &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-6373262392563583615?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/6373262392563583615/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=6373262392563583615' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/6373262392563583615'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/6373262392563583615'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/08/august-2007.html' title='August 2008'/><author><name>Rod Jurado</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09167456748955761498</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-6333042605957838209</id><published>2007-06-28T10:03:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:29:26.772-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Dr. Mel'/><title type='text'>July 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;PARADING THROUGH TIME&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;GENERATIONS AT WORK&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's an old saying that we each march to the beat of our own drummers ... with the fourth of July just around the corner let's think a little about the drumbeats around us!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;GENERATIONS AT WORK&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Four generations of workers now occupy the workplace. Has your organization encountered any challenges in bringing these diverse workers together? Differences can either strengthen team performance when we capitalize on our diversity to identify new opportunities or it can be a source of irritation and unrelenting conflict. Understanding a danger exists in stereotyping, there is still high value in understanding influences that shape your workforce.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Who makes up your workforce?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Veterans&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; compromise approximately 50-million people, born between 1922-1945. These are the individuals born prior to World War II and whose earliest memories and influences are associated with that world-shaping event.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Baby Boomers &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;compromise just over 70-million individuals, born between 1945-1960. Those in this group were born during or post World War II and were raised in an era of extreme optimism, opportunity, and American progress and pride.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Gen Xers&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; were born between 1960-1980. They are just slightly smaller in number than boomers. These individuals came of age deep in the shadow of the Boomers and the rise of the Asian tiger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Gen Nexters&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; number just under 70-million, born between 1980-2000. People in this category were born into a high-tech, neo-optimistic time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;FORMATION GOAL&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The goal in exploring diverse generations in the workplace is to move beyond the behind-the-back sniping, resentment, and complaining to realizing the positive potential of a diverse generational workforce that effectively harnesses the power of differing viewpoints, passions, and motivators.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ROCKETS RED GLARE&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One can become a bit ‘blinded’ by the ‘glaring’ diversity and challenges faced when contemplating how to best meld together, into one strong team, the four generations now occupying the workplace. However, key principles apply across generations in building strong teams. You’ve got to know your players – their outlook, work ethic, and views of authority – if you’re going to get the best out of them. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Veterans&lt;/em&gt; - &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Outlook: Practical. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Work ethic: Dedicated. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;View of Authority: Respectful. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Leadership by: Hierarchy. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Relationships: Personal sacrifice.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Boomers -&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Outlook: Optimistic. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Work ethic: Driven. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;View of Authority: Love/Hate. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Leadership by: Consensus. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Relationships: Personal gratification.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Gen Xers - &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;Outlook: Skeptical. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Work Ethic: Balanced. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;View of Authority: Unimpressed. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Leadership by: Competence. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Relationships: Reluctant to commit.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Gen Nexters -&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Outlook: Hopeful. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Work ethic: Determined. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;View of Authority: Polite. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Leadership by: Pulling together. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Relationships: Inclusive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;WHAT DRUM DO YOU MARCH TO?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which group do you most identify with? What do you find frustrating about working with differing perspectives? What do you appreciate about the other perspectives? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you a Boomers who tends to see Xers as somewhat greedy and lazy, resistant of team groupings and self-serving, loners and cynical? Perhaps you’re an Xer who sees Boomers as dictatorial, obsessive, a little soft. Both of these views are stereotypical overgeneralizations, but nonetheless existent perceptions. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-6333042605957838209?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/6333042605957838209/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=6333042605957838209' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/6333042605957838209'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/6333042605957838209'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/parading-through-time-generations-at.html' title='July 2008'/><author><name>Rod Jurado</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09167456748955761498</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-8605769884602394102</id><published>2007-06-16T16:50:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:30:23.238-04:00</updated><title type='text'>June 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A TIME FOR GRADUATIONS &amp;amp; NEW BEGINNINGS&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;GRADUATING TO A MOTIVATIONAL WORKPLACE&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A recent workplace study confirms that treating employees with respect and dignity is critical to retaining good workers, especially in a better job market. Employees who do not feel as though they are treated with respect by their employers are over three times more likely to intend to leave their jobs within two years than those who feel they are treated respectfully, according to a survey by author of &lt;em&gt;The Enthusiastic Employee&lt;/em&gt;, David Sirota (Wharton School Publishing, 2005). The study found 63% of those who do not feel treated with respect intend to leave within two years, versus only 19% of those who feel they are shown respect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note, the main reason employees don’t feel they are treated with respect isn’t due to abusive behavior by management. In most cases the challenge is management’s indifference, or the failure of management to go out of its way to demonstrate respect to employees.&lt;br /&gt;Review the tips in column two for ways you can recognize and reward team members in your organization for jobs well done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;You don’t have to be great to get started, but you do have to get started to be great&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~~~~~~~~~~~ &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Frequently, the difference between success and failure is the resolve to&lt;br /&gt;stick to your plan long enough to win."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;--David Cottrell &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;~~~~~~~~~~~&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"The more I want to get something done,&lt;br /&gt;the less I call it work."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;--Richard Bach&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;NEW BEGINNINGS&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;RETAIN &amp;amp; RECOGNIZE&lt;br /&gt;GREAT PERFORMERS &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The recent work of David Sirota, published by Wharton School, surveyed 370,378 employees. These employees gave clear indication to motivators in the workplace. How do you stack up? Which recognition practices do you currently employ?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Encourage innovation and ideas on new and better ways of doing things.&lt;br /&gt;- Provide employees with helpful feedback and coaching on how to perform more effectively.&lt;br /&gt;- Recognize employees for their accomplishments and provide them with freedom to use their judgment.&lt;br /&gt;- Value people as individuals, and give them a sense of being included.&lt;br /&gt;- Appreciate diverse perspectives, ideas, and work styles.&lt;br /&gt;- Encourage full expression of ideas without fear of negative consequences.&lt;br /&gt;- Listen to, and fairly handle, employees’ concerns and complaints.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"A basic rule for managers is "Pass the pride down." People like to create when they can earn recognition for their ideas. When a good idea surfaces, the creator’s immediate superiors should show prompt appreciation."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;--James L. Hayes &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-8605769884602394102?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/8605769884602394102/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=8605769884602394102' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/8605769884602394102'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/8605769884602394102'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/june-2007.html' title='June 2008'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-4653537609031900445</id><published>2007-06-16T16:39:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:32:21.459-04:00</updated><title type='text'>May 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;PLANTING FOR SUCCESS&lt;br /&gt;SPRINGING FORWARD &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Why Crops Fail&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many who think they’ve planted themselves for success, instead find themselves being yanked from the ranks of organizations and tossed aside like idle weeds. Positive skills alone will not keep one grounded within an organizational structure. In fact, if one does not attend to style detractors (weeds) that kill productivity (the crops), they may find themselves yanked.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What style detractors need to be weeded out of your organization? Do you or any that you coach fall prey to:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Root Rot&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; - The individual supports initiatives publicly, but disparage them privately. This type of passive resistance slows progress and chokes off organizational growth. Answer: Public buy-in and accountability. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Pruning Perfectionism&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; – An over-attention to details, individuals muddy themselves and lose sight of the big picture. Lots of meetings, but little results, cause others to doubt, motivation wanes, crops die. Answer: A focused action-orientation that measures results achieved, not meetings attended.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Overwatering&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; – The inability to stop talking and take action. The temptation to overwater sometimes stems from an individuals fear of making decisions so they talk processes to death – no action, no results, no harvest.&lt;br /&gt;Answer: Strategic plan with timeline accountabilities.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Master Gardeners&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: This individual thinks only they can do the job right. The inability to delegate and turn over some of the ‘gardening’ (processes) to others causes good plants (and plans) to die from lack of nourishment. Answer: Team Approach. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Are you Planting on Fertile Ground? &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Is yours a thinking organization? In his book, Thinking for a Change, John C. Maxwell emphasizes that focused thinking benefits not only the individual but also the company. Maxwell emphasizes the importance of "intentional thinking" – planning to think, finding the right place for thinking, and learning to shape raw thoughts into realistic ideas. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, is your organization preparing your organizational soil for fertile thought? What types of "thinking" are encouraged in your workplace? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Big-Picture Thinking&lt;/em&gt; – Thinking beyond today’s fires to proactively positioning us for future success. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Creative Thinking&lt;/em&gt; – Explores options, tries the offbeat, and ditches negatives that kill creativity (such as telling yourself or others, "We tried that before and it failed.")&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Realistic Thinking&lt;/em&gt; – We do our homework, review pros and cons, consider available resources, set goals, and take reasonable risks (the next logical step). &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Possibility Thinking&lt;/em&gt; – We persevere and don’t give up. Maxwell cites the example of filmmaker George Lucas’ doggedness in making "Star Wars" despite being told by special-effects experts that his vision couldn’t be realized. Possibility thinking avoids so-called experts who shoot down ideas.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Shared Thinking&lt;/em&gt; – Values others ideas. The right people are working together, agendas are commonplace when we meet, good collaboration is compensated.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Ground Samples – Personal Application&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ask five people to talk about your three greatest strengths and weaknesses. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-4653537609031900445?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/4653537609031900445/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=4653537609031900445' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/4653537609031900445'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/4653537609031900445'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/may-2007.html' title='May 2008'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-4914882603410836269</id><published>2007-06-16T16:23:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:33:16.943-04:00</updated><title type='text'>April 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;DON'T BE FOOLED&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;THE FUTURE IS NOW&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s 2010 – do you know where your leaders are? Before dismissing this question beware of a growing crisis: the pending labor shortage and the negative influence it promises for succession planning. In fact, are you already seeing the clouds and hearing the thunder in the hallways from the coming storm? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Because the Baby boom generation is approaching retirement age, and the generation that following the boomers are 20 million fewer, many are predicting a critical leadership crisis is coming. By the end of the decade, U.S. population trends predict twenty percent fewer employees in the 35-44 age group, the typical breeding ground for the next generation of managers and eventual organizational leaders.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Question: Are you fooling yourself or do you have an effective leadership development program in place? &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;VISIONARY OR VIEWLESS&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Organizational vision – Do you celebrate it, brand your organization with it, and most importantly capture it? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like a kite without a kite string, you lose control when a vision is never captured and connected to day-to-day activities. If thinking about the future is an afterthought in your organization because daily activities and ‘firefighting’ steal the clock, you’re setting your team up for a tenuous future. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Questions: &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;(1) Do you want to spend your future reacting or proactively responding? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;(2) Are your employees aware of the targets your organization would like to reach (and possibly exceed) by 2010? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;(3) In what ways are you and the organization ensuring future success and vision achievement through focused action today?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;NO NEWS, GOOD NEWS &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;The ostrich may find peace by burying its head in the sand, but that doesn’t mean the lion has gone away! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;ADDRESSING RESOURCE ALLOCATION ISSUES&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only a fool would think results still improve even when we don’t address the organizational resource issues. The first step is to clearly understand what the critical issues are. Realizing and capitalizing on the various perspectives of those we work with create a powerful synergy.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s an idea for your next leadership, departmental, divisional, or team meeting: Ask members to come to the meeting prepared to share the most pressing, real issue they face on the job. Define a real issue as something the member does not know how to resolve without additional allocation of resources – be it time, human or economic. Request members to continue preparing for the meeting by drafting a recommendation about what resources are needed to resolve their issues and where those resources might come from. Finally, ask the members to write what concrete outcomes they are trying to deliver by resolving their issues.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By allowing members to present their resource concerns to one another, all the right questions are raised:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffcc;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;(1) What is currently obstructing our desired outcome achievement?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffcc;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;(2) How important is this outcome(s) to our mission and vision achievement?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffcc;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;(3) As the situation is assessed, do others agree it’s a time, talent (human resources), or treasures (economic) issue?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffcc;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;(4) What can members do about it? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shielding team members from active resource discussions hurts morale and often starts rumors. When team members are a part of seeing available resources weighed against needs and outcomes, they better understand why organizational decisions are made. And more often than not, such discussions lead to better ways to allocate key organizational resources – like our time, our talents (human resources), and our treasures capital). &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-4914882603410836269?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/4914882603410836269/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=4914882603410836269' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/4914882603410836269'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/4914882603410836269'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/april-2007-dont-be-fooled.html' title='April 2008'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-7813933941203776422</id><published>2007-06-16T14:28:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:34:07.265-04:00</updated><title type='text'>March 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;Culture Building: Don't Leave it to Luck!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;WORKERS HOLD APATHY,&lt;br /&gt;CONTEMPT FOR MANAGERS&lt;br /&gt;New York, N.Y. 2/7/05&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;S&lt;/strong&gt;tartling results from a nationwide survey indicate more than half of American workers question the basic morality of their organization’s top leaders and say that their managers do not treat them fairly. These results come from a survey sponsored by 24 leading U.S. Companies, the “New Employer/ Employee Equation Survey”, conducted by Harris Interactive, Inc. This representative survey includes input from 7,718 American workers aged 18 and over.&lt;br /&gt;Only 36% of workers say they believe top managers act with honesty and integrity. Even fewer (29%) believe management cares about advancing employee skills, while one-third of all workers feel they have reached a dead end at their jobs.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Part of the problem is managers were only slightly more positive about the organizations they are charged with leading than employees as a whole. While nearly two-thirds (63%) agree that they care about the fate of their organization – more than one-third, surprisingly, do not. Slightly more than one-third of managers surveyed feel that their organizations inspire the best in them or are willing to promote their organization as being a great place to work.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;It is believed that in the 21st century workplace, the ability to manage diversity of work style, work stage and attitudes toward employment will drive success in recruiting, retaining and motivating the most talented and productive employee base which in turn directly impacts performance, productivity, and profit.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Your best hope for success is that your associates aren’t &lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;as good at judging you as you are at judging them.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;--Frank Tyger&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;“There is no exercise better for the heart &lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;than reaching down and lifting people up.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;--John Andrew Holmes&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;LUCK VS. INTENTIONAL ACTION&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is the month when we hear ‘Luck of the Irish’. Well, when it comes to building a positive workplace culture, luck has nothing to do with it; it’s about planned, intentional action.&lt;br /&gt;Several of you have invested time with the Value-Based Customer Service training we offer.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Have you applied the value-based tools to your internal customers (employees)? Truly, one of the most important things employers can do is convert merely satisfied employees into enthusiastic, engaged employees.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Have you heard other managers express sentiments such as: “Who cares! See, they’re (meaning employees) negative everywhere! I don’t have time for touchy-feely encounter groups.” Well, such attitudes in the management ranks are costing you, in terms of performance, productivity and profit.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If the leader's 3 P’s (performance, productivity, and profit) are important to you, let’s consider 3 more P’s that might be going through your employees minds.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Productivity:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Employees in cultures that don’t pay attention to the human-side of enterprise report, “I’ll show up and do my job, but nothing more, nothing extra. You think I’m an idiot, fine. You won’t be getting any improvement ideas from me in staff meetings or in your roundtable discussions.” Research tells us productivity dips anywhere from 17% to as high as 41% (where employees are actively sabotaging results) when they don’t trust management.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Perception:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; “They don’t care about me, why should I care about them.” When your employees believe this, the brain becomes focused on the negative. Employees are prepared to see the worst in organizational leaders. And, we all know, what we look for we can find.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;PR:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; “It was all a sales job. In the job interview I was told this was an open, high trust, team environment. What a crock!” Organizations easily spend a thousand dollars, or more, for a single hire. And, when what’s said in the interview does not correspond to an employees experience on the job, credibility is damaged.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Is your organization saying all the right things &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;but doing little to ensure there’s a consistency in action?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-7813933941203776422?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/7813933941203776422/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=7813933941203776422' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/7813933941203776422'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/7813933941203776422'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/march-2007-culture-building-dont-leave.html' title='March 2008'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-8892358212567828558</id><published>2007-06-16T13:57:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T17:35:06.031-04:00</updated><title type='text'>February 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;THE HEART OF THE MATTER&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;LOVE THE WORK YOU’RE IN… &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;…For Your Physical Health. In Dr. Deepak Chopra’s book, Magical Mind, Magical Body, he shares, “Did you know that when you can say, ‘I love my work,’ you reduce your risk of heart disease?” A study done by the Massachusetts HEW investigating the cause of heart disease asked participants two questions: Are you happy? Do you love your work? The results indicated that those who answered yes have a better chance of not getting heart disease.&lt;br /&gt;Question: Do you love your work?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;…For you Financial Health. In Getting Rich Your Own Way, 1500 people were divided into two groups and took part in a longitudinal study that spanned 20 years. The designation of groupings was based on how people selected careers. 83% selected careers based on the opportunity to make the most money possible. 17% chose careers based on what they loved and wanted to do. At the end of 20 years 101 of the 1500 had become multi-millionaires. Of the 101 millionaires, 100 were from the 17% that selected a career based on what they loved to do.&lt;br /&gt;Question: Why do you work?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;…For Healthy Relationships. Most of us can recall taking a bad day on the job home with us. The quality of both our personal and professional relationships is impacted by the attitude we hold toward the work we do. If you cannot work with love but only with distaste, you will do yourself and others a service to leave the position you’re in.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Question: Do you enjoy high quality personal and professional relationships?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;WHAT PEOPLE WANT&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a survey supervisors were asked to rank the importance of ten motivators for their employees. Employees were then asked to rank the same list in order of what they most wanted from their supervisors. The following is the list of what employees wanted most and the list of what their supervisors thought they wanted.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Employees&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Appreciation&lt;br /&gt;Feeling “in” on things&lt;br /&gt;Understanding attitude&lt;br /&gt;Job security&lt;br /&gt;Good wages&lt;br /&gt;Interesting work&lt;br /&gt;Promotion opportunities&lt;br /&gt;Loyalty from management&lt;br /&gt;Good working conditions&lt;br /&gt;Tactful discipline&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Supervisors&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Good wages&lt;br /&gt;Job security&lt;br /&gt;Promotion opportunities&lt;br /&gt;Good working conditions&lt;br /&gt;Interesting work&lt;br /&gt;Loyalty from management&lt;br /&gt;Tactful discipline&lt;br /&gt;Appreciation&lt;br /&gt;Understanding attitude&lt;br /&gt;Feeling “in” on things &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Question: Is anybody paying attention?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A HOMERUN FOR THE HEART&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reggie Jackson once shared, “I’ll tell you what makes a great manager: A great manager has a knack for making ballplayers think they are better than they think they are. He forces you to have a good opinion of yourself. He lets you know he believes in you. He makes you get more out of yourself. And once you learn how good you really are, you never settle for playing anything less that your very best!”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Question: Are you hitting homeruns?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-8892358212567828558?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/8892358212567828558/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=8892358212567828558' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/8892358212567828558'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/8892358212567828558'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/february-2007-heart-of-matter.html' title='February 2008'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2405329364825054585.post-8604594579644658880</id><published>2007-06-16T13:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-06-16T16:38:04.032-04:00</updated><title type='text'>January 2007</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7-Ups for 2007 Success&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Wake Up.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Decide to have a good day, every day! The decision of the attitude you face the world with is yours and yours alone.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Show Up.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; To make a positive impact, you have to be ready to contribute and have a solid direction.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Make Up&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. Are there relationships in your life in need of some mending? Remember, we get results with and through people. If you’re not getting the results you want in life, take a look at the quality of your relationships.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Build Up.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Make a commitment to build up others on a daily basis. There is no treading water in today’s world, you’re either building up or your tearing down. Be it within the workplace or your home, determine now to build a high trust culture this year (check out the 13 Behaviors Of High Trust Leaders in the adjacent column). &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Shut Up.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; I believe the good Lord gave us two ears and one mouth for a very good reason, we should be listening twice as much as we are speaking to clients, fellow team members, spouses, etc. When you’re the one doing all of the talking you learn nothing. Hush, learn to listen, and you’ll garner a better understanding of the world around you. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Stand Up.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; for what you believe in. The adage goes, you better stand up for something or you’re likely to fall for anything. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Reach Up.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; What’s a big hairy bodacious goal you’d like to achieve this year? It’s just as easy to shoot the feathers off of an eagle as the fur off a skunk. What would you like to reach for in 2007?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;13 Behaviors of High Trust Leaders&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a 2006 presentation to the American Society for Training &amp;amp; Development, Stephen Covey presented the ‘&lt;em&gt;13 Behaviors of High Trust Leaders&lt;/em&gt;’. At the onset Mr. Covey shared, “The ability to establish, grow, extend, and restore trust with all stakeholders – customers, suppliers, investors and co-workers – is the key leadership competency of the new, global economy.”&lt;br /&gt;The thirteen behaviors represent both character- and competence-based behaviors. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;How do you rate on the following 13 behaviors of high trust leaders? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BEHAVIOR&lt;br /&gt;Weak &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;------------------------&lt;/span&gt;Strong&lt;br /&gt;Talk Straight&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Demonstrate Respect&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Create Transparency&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Right Wrongs&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Show Loyalty&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Deliver Results&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Get Better&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Confront Reality&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Clarify Expectations&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Practice Accountability&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Listen First&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Keep Commitments&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Extend Trust&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, based on your self-assessment, &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;how much trust do you believe others have in you? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Level of Trust&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Low&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt; -------------------------&lt;/span&gt;High&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;___ &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;--------------------------&lt;/span&gt;___&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Our distrust is very expensive.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;--Ralph Waldo Emerson&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2405329364825054585-8604594579644658880?l=mye-mel.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/feeds/8604594579644658880/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2405329364825054585&amp;postID=8604594579644658880' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/8604594579644658880'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2405329364825054585/posts/default/8604594579644658880'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mye-mel.blogspot.com/2007/06/january-2007-7-ups-for-2007-success.html' title='January 2007'/><author><name>Mel Jurado, MS, MA, PhD, CWFP</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07136874522808171953</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_sqDnqXDMdNE/SdwNTsZom9I/AAAAAAAAAAo/_eWZGMk2W8E/S220/MEL+HEADSHOT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
